My Girlfriend Started Seeing Another Man. At First, It Was a Win-Win for Us Both. Now I’m Not So Sure.
A queer couple navigates the complexities of their non-monogamous relationship as one partner begins dating another man. Initially, the arrangement seemed beneficial, but feelings of jealousy and resentment have emerged. The partner who feels sidelined is struggling with the perceived imbalance in their experiences.
- ▪The couple has been together for three years and initially agreed on a non-monogamous relationship.
- ▪One partner enjoys the cuckold dynamic while the other has developed jealousy over solo dates with another man.
- ▪The partner feeling sidelined is experiencing resentment and discomfort due to the perceived lack of autonomy in their relationship.
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| Canonical URL | https://slate.com/advice/2026/05/sex-advice-girlfriend-solo-dating.html?via=rss |
| Publication time | Wed, 20 May 2026 16:07:03 GMT |
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How to Do It My Girlfriend Started Seeing Another Man. At First, It Was a Win-Win for Us Both. Now I’m Not So Sure. Advice by Rich Juzwiak May 20, 202612:07 PM Photo illustration by Slate. Photo by Love portrait and love the world/iStock/Getty Images Plus. Copy Link Share Share Comment Copy Link Share Share Comment How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My partner, a queer female in her 30s, and I, a queer male in my 40s, have been together for around three years. When we started dating, I made it clear I was non-monogamous, but I consider myself emotionally monogamous (she’s my anchor, I’m purely interested in physical experiences and friendships outside of a primary relationship).
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